CHAPTER XVI

A Remarkable Old Age

LETTERS TO THE MARQUIS DE SÉVIGNÉ

INTRODUCTION TO LETTERS I--A Hazardous Undertaking II--Why Love Is Dangerous III--Why Love Grows Cold IV--The Spice of Love V--Love and Temper VI--Certain Maxims Concerning Love VII--Women Expect a Quid Pro Quo from Men VIII--The Necessity for Love and Its Primitive Cause IX--Love Is a Natural Inclination X--The Sensation of Love Forms a Large Part of a Woman's Nature XI--The Distinction Between Love and Friendship XII--A Man in Love Is an Amusing Spectacle XIII--Vanity Is a Fertile Soil for Love XIV--Worth and Merit Are Not Considered in Love XV--The Hidden Motives of Love XVI--How to Be Victorious in Love XVII--Women Understand the Difference Between Real Love and Flirtation XVIII--When a Woman Is Loved She Need Not Be Told of It XIX--Why a Lover's Vows Are Untrustworthy XX--The Half-way House to Love XXI--The Comedy of Contrariness XXII--Vanity and Self-Esteem Obstacles to Love XXIII--Two Irreconcilable Passions in Woman XXIV--An Abuse of Credulity Is Intolerable XXV--Why Virtue Is So Often Overcome XXVI--Love Demands Freedom of Action XXVII--The Heart Needs Constant Employment XXVIII--Mere Beauty Is Often of Trifling Importance XXIX--The Misfortune of Too Sudden an Avowal XXX--When Resistance is Only a Pretence XXXI--The Opinion and Advice of Monsieur de la Sablière XXXII--The Advantages of a Knowledge of the Heart XXXIII--A Heart Once Wounded No Longer Plays with Love XXXIV--Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder XXXV--The Heart Should Be Played Upon Like the Keys of a Piano XXXVI--Mistaken Impressions Common to All Women XXXVII--The Allurements of Stage Women XXXVIII--Varieties of Resistance Are Essential XXXIX--The True Value of Compliments Among Women XL--Oratory and Fine Phrases Do Not Breed Love XLI--Discretion Is Sometimes the Better Part of Valor XLII--Surface Indications in Women Are Not Always Guides XLIII--Women Demand Respect XLIV--Why Love Grows Weak--Marshal de Saint-Evremond's Opinion XLV--What Favors Men Consider Faults XLVI--Why Inconstancy Is Not Injustice XLVII--Cause of Quarrels Among Rivals XLVIII--Friendship Must Be Firm XLIX--Constancy Is a Virtue Among Narrow Minded L--Some Women Are Very Cunning LI--The Parts Men and Women Play LII--Love Is a Traitor with Sharp Claws LIII--Old Age Not a Preventive Against Attack LIV--A Shrewd But Not an Unusual Scheme LV--A Happy Ending

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CORRESPONDENCE BETWEEN LORD SAINT-EVREMOND AND NINON DE L'ENCLOS

I--Lovers and Gamblers Have Something in Common II--It Is Sweet to Remember Those We Have Loved III--Wrinkles Are a Mark of Wisdom IV--Near Hopes Are Worth as Much as Those Far Off V--On the Death of De Charleval VI--The Weariness of Monotony VII--After the Death of La Duchesse de Mazarin VIII--Love Banishes Old Age IX--Stomachs Demand More Attention Than Minds X--Why Does Love Diminish After Marriage? XI--Few People Resist Age XII--Age Has Some Consolations XIII--Some Good Taste Still Exists in France XIV--Superiority of the Pleasures of the Stomach XV--Let the Heart Speak Its Own Language XVI--The Memory of Youth XVII--I Should Have Hanged Myself XVIII--Life Is Joyous When It Is Without Sorrow Letter to the Modern Leontium

NINON DE L'ENCLOS

LIFE AND LETTERS

INTRODUCTION

The inner life of the most remarkable woman that ever lived is here presented to American readers for the first time. Ninon, or Mademoiselle de l'Enclos, as she was known, was the most beautiful woman of the seventeenth century. For seventy years she held undisputed sway over the hearts of the most distinguished men of France; queens, princes, noblemen, renowned warriors, statesmen, writers, and scientists bowing before her shrine and doing her homage, even Louis XIV, when she was eighty-five years of age, declaring that she was the marvel of his reign.

How she preserved her extraordinary beauty to so great an age, and attracted to her side the greatest and most brilliant men of the century, is told in her biography, which has been entirely re-written, and new facts and incidents added that do not appear in the French compilations.

Her celebrated "Letters to the Marquis de Sévigné," newly translated, and appearing for the first time in the United States, constitute the most remarkable pathology of the female heart, its motives, objects, and secret aspirations, ever penned. With unsparing hand she unmasks the human heart and unveils the most carefully hidden mysteries of femininity, and every one who reads these letters will see herself depicted as in a mirror.

At an early age she perceived the inequalities between the sexes, and refused to submit to the injustice of an unfair distribution of human qualities. After due deliberation, she suddenly announced to her friends: "I notice that the most frivolous things are charged up to the account of women, and that men have reserved to themselves the right to all the essential qualities; from this moment I will be a man." From that time--she was twenty years of age--until her death, seventy years later, she maintained the character assumed by her, exercised all the rights and privileges claimed by the male sex, and created for herself, as the distinguished Abbé de Chateauneauf says, "a place in the ranks of illustrious men, while preserving all the grace of her own sex."

LIFE OF NINON DE L'ENCLOS