George Washington's Rules of Civility Traced to their Sources and Restored by Moncure D. Conway
Chapter viii. 47. Ne vous fâchez iamais en table, quoy qu'il
aduienne, ou bien si vous vous fâchez, n'ent faites point de semblant, principalement y ayant des estrangers à table.
[Sidenote: Hawkins vii. 40. 'A cheerefull countenance makes one dish a Feast.']
Never be angry at table, no matter what may happen, or even if you have cause for anger, do not show it, especially if strangers are present.
[Sidenote: There is a blank in the MS. after upper.]
106th. Set not yourself at y'e upper [end] of y'e Table but if it be your Due or that y'e Master of y'e house will have it so, Contend not least you Should Trouble y'e company.