Character and conduct

Part 17

Chapter 172,727 wordsPublic domain

"Be patient still; suffer us yet a while longer; with our broken purposes of good, with our idle endeavours against evil, suffer us a while longer to endure, and (if it may be) help us to do better. Bless to us our extraordinary mercies; if the day come when these must be taken, brace us to play the man under affliction. Be with our friends; be with ourselves. Go with each of us to rest; if any dream, be their dreams quiet; if any awake, temper to them the dark hours of watching; and when the day returns, return to us our sun and comforter, and call us up with morning faces and with morning hearts--eager to labour--eager to be happy, if happiness shall be our portion--and if the day be marked for sorrow, strong to endure it."

_Vailima Prayers_, R. L. STEVENSON.

New Year's Eve

DECEMBER 31

"Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky The flying cloud, the frosty light: The year is dying in the night; Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.

"Ring out the old, ring in the new, Ring, happy bells, across the snow: The year is going, let him go; Ring out the false, ring in the true.

"Ring out the grief that saps the mind, For those that here we see no more; Ring out the feud of rich and poor, Ring in redress to all mankind.

"Ring out a slowly dying cause, And ancient forms of party strife; Ring in the nobler modes of life, With sweeter manners, purer laws.

"Ring out the want, the care, the sin, The faithless coldness of the times; Ring out, ring out my mournful rhymes, But ring the fuller minstrel in.

"Ring out false pride in place and blood, The civic slander and the spite; Ring in the love of truth and right, Ring in the common love of good.

"Ring out old shapes of foul disease; Ring out the narrowing lust of gold; Ring out the thousand wars of old, Ring in the thousand years of peace.

"Ring in the valiant man and free, The larger heart, the kindlier hand; Ring out the darkness of the land, Ring in the Christ that is to be."

TENNYSON.

INDEX OF SUBJECTS

Accidie, 95, 96, 97, 98, 99, 100

Accuracy, 185

Age, 361, 362

Appetite for Condolence, The, 310

Argument, 195, 196, 197

Art of Being Quiet, The, 30, 31

As Light enters Darkness departs, 297

Aspiration, 306

Back-biting, 190

Balance, 170, 171

Bearing Criticism, 155

Bearing Sorrow, 256, 257, 258, 259

Bearing Trouble, 322

Beauties of Nature, 333

Beautiful, Sense of, 334

Beauty, The Gospel of, 335

Being and Doing, 24, 25

Bereavement, 246, 247

Blessed are the Happiness-makers, 134

Books, 339, 340

Business-like Habits, 36

By their Works, 272

Calamity, Sharp Ferule of, 311

Calumny, 158, 159

Causes of Thankfulness, 324, 325

Celestial Surgeon, The, 18

Character, 138

Character-- Childlike-ness, 136 Negative Virtues, 137 Our Echoes roll from Soul to Soul, 139 The Right Atmosphere, 135

Character and Service, 11

Character of Henry Drummond, 22 ---- R. L. Stevenson, 23

Cheerfulness, 330

Childhood, A Happy, 344

Christian Law, The, 262, 263

Christianity, Programme of, 275

Christmas Day, 359

Christmas Eve, 358

Circumstances, 12, 13

Code of Society, The, 165

Comfort's Art, 92

Commune with your own Heart and be Still, 33

Conceit, 162

Concentration, 38, 39

Condolence, Appetite for, 310

Confession of Sin, 288

Conscience, 150

Contemptuousness, 181

Contentment, 318, 319

Conversation, 193, 194

Courage, 58

Courage to be Poor, 355

Courtesy, 203, 204, 205

Creed, A New, 274

Creeds, 267

Criticism, 155

Crossing the Bar, 254

Culture, 202

Day by Day, 301, 302

Dead, The, 249, 250, 251, 252

Death, 253

Death of Young Children, 248

Discontent, 316, 320

Dissension, 242

Doing more than Feeling, 62

Doing our Best, 64

Duty, 46, 47, 48

Duty of Giving Happiness, 132, 133

Duty of Happiness, The, 315

Duty of Physical Health, The, 84, 85

Duty to my Neighbour, 131

Education, The Object of, 342, 343 ---- Moral, 345, 346, 347

Egotism, 164, 192

Endurance, 43

Essentials of Happiness, The, 312

Evil is Wrought by Want of Thought, 69

Evil of Brooding, The, 305

Example, 350

Expenditure, 353

Faith, 273

False Impressions, 182

Falterers, 57

Family Life, 128

Fasting, 268, 269

Faults, 156

Fear of Failure, 55, 56

Flattery, 160

Foot-path to Peace, The, 8

Forgiveness, 115

Friendship, 216-235

Gaining or Losing Ground, 303

God, Manifestations of, 278, 279, 280

God's Children, 77

Gossip, 189, 191

Growing Old, 361

Grumblers, 329

Grumbling, 326, 327, 328

Habit, 140, 141

Habit of Admiration, The, 21

Hallowing of Work, The, 70

Happiness, 132, 133, 134, 312, 315

Happiness Makers, 134

Harmony, 15, 16

Health, Duty of, 84, 85

Heart, Commune with, 33

Heredity, 152, 153, 154

Holidays, 338

Holiness, 4

Holy Spirit, 5

Hospitality, 356, 357

Humility, 163

Humour, 331, 332

Hypochondriacs, 90, 91

Ideal Guest-chamber, An, 75

Ideal Level, An, 50

Ideals, 17

Idleness, 53, 54

Ifs of Life, The, 14

Ill-nature, 118

Indifference, Sin of, 60

Influence, 210, 211, 214, 215

Influence of Great Men, 19, 20

Interruptions, 73

Introspection, 290

Introspectiveness, 289

Invalids, 87, 88

Inward Stillness, 32

Iron Chains of Duty, The, 48

Irritability, 93, 94

Jealousy, 236, 237, 238

Judging, 176, 178, 180

Judgment, Biassed, 177

Judgment, Harsh, 175

Judgment, Sound, 172, 173, 174

Justice and Mercy, 179

Law of Love, The Great, 270

Lessons of Suffering, 89

Life, Ifs of, 14

Life a School, 10

Life after Death, 255

Life-giver, not Deed-doer, 26

Limit of Luxury, The, 352

Living in the Present, 300

Lord's Supper, The, 276

Love, 126, 130, 243

Love, Grace, and Tenderness of Life, The, 363

Love and Remorse, 239, 240, 241

Love Unrequited, 244, 245

Love, Law of, 270

Luxury, 352

Magnifying Troubles, 321

Manifestation of God, 278, 279, 280

Manners, 206, 207, 208, 209

Mechanical Work, 74

Memory, 110, 111

Mens Sana in Corpore Sano, 83

Mental Hygiene, 296

Mercy, 179

Method, 37

Mile-marks, 360

Money, 354

Morality, Physical, 86

Morbid Introspectiveness, 289

My Duty to my Neighbour, 131

Nature, 333, 336, 337

Never Lose a Battle, 299

New Year's Day, 1

New Year's Eve, 365

Noble Life, A, 3

Nominal Christians, 277

"Not to Destroy, but to Fulfil," 265

Obstinacy, 157

Oil and Wine, 127

Old Age, 362

One by One, 71, 72

Open Mind, An, 198

Order, 41

Our true Selves and our traditional Selves, 291

Patience, 124, 309

Patience with Ourselves, 7

Peace, 8

Perseverance, 44

Pessimism, 79

Physical Morality, 86

Pleasure in Work, 45

Poverty, 355

Power, 49

Power of the Holy Spirit, The, 5

Prayer, 281-286

Prayer, A, 364

Present Circumstances, 12

Pressing Forward, 304

Pride, 161

Programme of Christianity, The, 275

Public Opinion, 166, 167

Punishment, 348

Purpose, 2, 9

Quarrels, 106, 107

"Quench not the Smoking Flax," 212, 213

Quiet, 30, 31

Raw Material, 78

Readiness, 40

Reading, 341

Rebuking, 349

Receptive Side of Life, The, 34

Reconciliation, 113, 114

Regulation of Time, 35

Religion-- The Meaning of, 260 Pure, 261 In Daily Life, 266 Reparation, 116

Repentance, 151

Resolves, 287

Responsibility, 59

Rest, 314

Revenge, 108

Right Use of Speech, 200

Sacredness of Work, The, 63

Satan's Opportunities, 68

Science of Social Life, The, 119, 120, 121, 122

Secret of the Joy of Living, The, 323

Secret of Thrift, The, 42

Seeing one's Life in Perspective, 27

Self-centred People, 317

Self-examination, 287

Selfishness, 125

Sense of the Beautiful, 334

Sermon on the Mount, 274

Service, 80, 81, 82

Sharp Ferule of Calamity, The, 311

Silence a great Peacemaker, 112

Sin, 144, 145, 146, 148, 149, 288

Sin has its Pedigree, 142

Sin of Idleness, The, 53

Sin of Indifference, The, 60

Sins of the Spirit, 147

Sociability, 122

Society, 165

Soldiers of the Same Army, 271

Sorrow, 256, 257, 258, 259

Spectrum of Love, The, 130

Spiritual Balance and Proportion, 168

Stepping-Stones, 298

Struggling, 308

Sympathy, 123

Symphony, A, 6

Temper, 101, 102, 103, 104, 105

Temperance, 169

Temptation, 143

Thankfulness, 324, 325

There shall never be one lost Good, 307

Thoughts, 201

Thrift, 42

Time, 35

Time and Method, 37

To be Trusted is to be Saved, 76

Tolerance, 199

Touchiness, 109

Triviality, 28, 29

Trouble, 321, 322

True Patience, 309

Trustees, 264

Truth, 183

Truthfulness, 184, 186, 187, 188

Unamiable, The, 117

Unbalanced Memory, 110, 111

Unfelt Creeds, 267

Ungraciousness, 129

Unrest, 313

Un-self-consciousness, 292, 293

Wasted Emotions, 61

Wealth, 351

Where Love is, God is, 126

Work, 45, 51

Work-- Effective Reforms, 65, 66 Special, For each, 52 To Cure is the Voice of the Past, 67 Sacredness of, 63

Works, 272

INDEX OF AUTHORS

A. H., 193

Abbott, Lyman, 10

Acton, 317

Adams, 354

Addison, 229, 330, 337

Allen, James Lane, 58, 114, 116, 152, 284

_Amiel's Journal_ (translated by Mrs. Humphry Ward), 2, 19, 31, 34, 40, 41, 46, 47, 55, 58, 118, 127, 140, 157, 161, 163, 167, 168, 172, 204, 212, 223, 227, 229, 236, 241, 256, 278, 313, 316, 320, 346, 361, 362

Ammian, 188

Arnold, Dr., 69

Arnold, Sir Edwin, 15, 16, 54, 60, 72, 75, 92, 139, 320

Arnold, Matthew, 121

Augustine, Saint, 290

Avebury, Lord, 3, 14, 36, 65, 85, 86, 89, 107, 170, 195, 311, 315, 336, 343

Bacon, 108, 354

Baillie, Joanna, 58

Balfour, Graham, 23

Barbauld, Mrs. A. L., 255

Barbour, R. W., 149

Barnes, 337

Barnett, Canon, 28, 29, 78, 80, 161, 352

Beecher, Henry Ward, 134, 139, 182, 280

Bentham, Jeremy, 140

Black, Hugh, 154, 219, 221

Blair, 216

Blind, Mathilde, 249, 362

Body, Canon, 34, 82, 151, 268

Book of Common Prayer, 85

Borrow, G., 363

Bosanquet, Mrs. Bernard, 67, 72, 213, 347

Bovée, 201

Brontë, Charlotte, 219

Brooke, Stopford, 11, 50, 53, 60, 61, 77, 79, 121, 131, 163, 266, 309, 312, 314, 321, 335

Brooks, Bishop Phillips, 5, 26, 42, 45, 49, 51, 66, 74, 84, 87, 88, 89, 137, 141, 150, 152, 168, 184, 211, 212, 217, 247, 265, 267, 274, 276, 281, 290, 297, 324, 332, 359

Brown, Dr. John, 344

Browning, E. B., 243

Browning, Robert, 45, 245, 307

Bruyère, La, 116

Bulwer-Lytton, 11, 17

Burke, 350

Burnett, Mrs. Hodgson, 178

Burns, 148

Burton, 316

Buxton, Charles, 64

Byron, 330

Caillard, E. M., 33

Caird, Principal, 179

Carey, Alice, 355

Carlyle, Thomas, 20, 45, 54, 63, 80, 97, 125, 156, 271, 298, 302

Cato, 106

Chalmers, 312

Channing, W. E., 6, 211, 325, 334

Chesterfield, Lord, 206, 208

Childs, Lydia M., 97

Cholmondeley, Mary, 74, 75, 138, 245, 344

Cicero, 221, 223, 228, 234

Clarke, J. Freeman, 340

Clough, Arthur Hugh, 15

Coleridge, 333, 359

Collier, Jeremy, 163

Colton, 35

Cowper, 159

Crabbe, 339

Crawford, F. Marion, 161

Cross, J. W., 133

Cyrus, 222

Dante, 301

Dawson, Rev. W. J., 338

De Staël, Madame, 312

Descartes, 106

Deschamps, 235

Dickens, Charles, 80, 315

Diggle, Archdeacon, 73, 268

Drummond, Professor Henry, 4, 19, 27, 76, 83, 102, 109, 126, 130, 132, 134, 142, 143, 144, 153, 204, 261, 265, 270, 275, 277, 288, 294, 313, 315

Dryden, 238

Eliot, George, 13, 16, 57, 87, 92, 101, 103, 110, 111, 112, 135, 150, 159, 180, 189, 240, 256, 291, 320, 333

Emerson, R. W., 10, 14, 39, 47, 58, 63, 64, 111, 116, 131, 143, 159, 165, 171, 187, 190, 192, 202, 204, 206, 207, 208, 215, 220, 223, 226, 280, 300, 301, 319, 320, 328, 330, 336, 356, 357

Empson, 104

Epictetus, 102, 158

Euripides, 228

Ewing, Mrs., 7, 125, 308, 326

Faber, F. W., 134

Fairless, Michael, 78

Farrar, Dean, 59, 88, 151, 190, 270

Feltham, 227

Fénélon, 7, 286

Fletcher, Horace, 68

Fowler, Ellen Thorneycroft, 112, 331

Fox, George, 29, 278

Froude, J. A., 184

Gannett, W. C., 356

Garfield, 56

Gaskell, Mrs., 57

Gladstone, W. E., 37

Goethe, 1, 39, 193, 199, 205, 362

Gore, Bishop, 165

Green, T. H., 273

Green, J. R., 363

Greene, C., 328

Grou, 293

Hacket, 310

Hare, 139, 310

Hare, Archdeacon, 163, 347

Harpe, La, 185

Harris, Rendel, 231, 284

Hawthorne, Nathaniel, 211

Helps, Sir Arthur, 122, 158, 341

Herbert, George, 195, 196, 324, 354

Herder, 231

Herodotus, 56

Hillel, Rabbi, 225

Hobbes, John Oliver, 176

Holland, Canon Scott, 257, 258, 259

Holmes, O. W., 14, 137, 204, 253

Hood, Thomas, 69

How, Bishop Walsham, 151, 289

Hughes, T., 219

Iddesleigh, Lord, 183

_Idler, The_, 234

Ingram, Bishop Winnington, 147, 279

James, Professor William, 141

Japanese Proverb, 330

Johnson, Dr., 55, 183

Jonson, Ben, 159

Joubert, 350

Keble, 312

Kemble, Fanny, 9

Kempis, Thomas à, 298

Kendall, May, 218, 237, 244, 278

Kingsley, Charles, 42, 46, 165, 166, 191, 214, 233, 283, 285, 300, 318, 334, 358

Lacordaire, 195

Latham, The Rev. Henry, 24, 35, 41, 62, 72, 80, 143, 177, 181, 191, 199, 269, 292, 305, 349

Leighton, Archbishop, 156

Liddon, Canon, 143

Little, Canon Knox, 289

Locke, 341

Long, George, 3

Longfellow, H. W., 32, 112, 275

Louis XIV., 35

Lowell, James Russell, 46, 51, 62, 77, 149, 164, 235, 250, 257, 306, 322

Lyall, Edna, 301

Lytton, 11, 17

Mabie, Hamilton W., 95, 202, 357

Macaulay, 172

MacColl, Canon, 2, 31, 64, 76, 113, 114, 127, 142, 210

MacCunn, Professor John, 17, 42, 62, 104, 169, 172, 230, 295, 296, 299, 337, 340, 348

MacDonald, George, 115, 178, 275, 355

Mann, Horace, 35

Marcus Aurelius, 4, 12, 44, 104, 156, 157, 167, 300, 302, 316, 318, 327

Martineau, 12

Martineau, H., 55, 117

Martineau, J., 53, 81

Mason, 235

Massillon, 236

McKinley, 141

McLean, Rev. J. K., 318

Meredith, George, 189

Merriam, G. S., 331

Miller, The Rev. J. R., 224, 232, 239, 240

Milnes, R. M., 308

Montaigne, 187

Montrésor, F. F., 317

Moore, T., 242

More, Hannah, 325

Morris, Sir Lewis, 183

Mozley, J. B., 280

Mulford, Prentice, 201

Muloch, Dinah M., 355

Neander, 274

Newbolt, Canon, 82

Newcomb, C. B., 39, 201, 305

Nicoll, W. Robertson, 22

Paget, Bishop, 1, 63, 70, 96, 97, 98, 99, 100, 120, 123, 124, 171, 174, 200, 203, 229, 310

Pascal, 146, 155, 177

Patmore, Coventry, 206, 241

Peabody, Ephraim, 1

Penn, William, 196, 246

Philpotts, Bishop, 43

Plumptre, 272

Plutarch, 162

Pope, 155

Potter, Bishop, 123, 351

Pulsford, John, 32

Rice, Alice Hegan, 322

Richter, 96, 173

Robertson, The Rev. F. W., 25, 39, 119, 126, 285, 304

_Robertson, Life of the Rev. F. W._, 287

Rochefoucauld, La, 29, 106, 116, 160, 189, 192, 193, 197, 198, 233, 322

Rogers, H., 36

Rossetti, Christina, 175, 178, 252

Ruskin, John, 67, 69, 288, 343

Sales, S. Francis de, 195, 349, 352

Seneca, 287, 319

Shakespeare, 8, 56, 108, 189, 220, 309

Shorthouse, John, 123

Sidney, Philip, 227

Smiles, Samuel, 184, 208, 209

Smith, George Adam, 222

Smith, H. W., 27

Socrates, 20, 216

Soulsby, Lucy, 95, 168, 327

South, Bishop, 84

Southey, 321

Spanish Proverb, 233

Spencer, Herbert, 20, 86, 185, 197, 345

Spenser, 206, 231

Staël, Madame de, 312

Stevenson, R. L., 7, 18, 48, 108, 109, 131, 137, 186, 188, 260, 311, 360, 364

Stowe, Harriet Beecher, 90, 91, 93, 94, 128

Sweet, Ada C., 192

Talbot, Bishop, 215

Taylor, Bayard, 59

Taylor, Bishop, 273

Taylor, Jeremy, 170, 220, 324

Temple, Archbishop, 105, 129, 145, 146, 165, 213, 288

Tennyson, Lord, 44, 47, 57, 115, 122, 139, 182, 224, 254, 290, 298, 308, 365

_Tennyson--A Memoir_, by his Son, 10, 181, 247, 256, 271, 273, 282, 331

Thackeray, Miss, 325

Thackeray, W. M., 13, 21, 111, 216, 246, 247

Thomas, Dr. H. W., 261

Thoreau, 28, 114, 157, 186, 202, 222, 225, 306, 333

Thorold, Bishop, 267, 277

Toynbee, Arnold, 319

Trench, Archbishop, 3, 17, 248, 286, 323

Turgenev, Ivan, 48, 148

Van Dyke, 8, 61

Vaughan, Henry, 302

Vauvenargues, 56, 157, 185, 212

Virgil, 49

Voltaire, 13, 54

Walker, Thomas, 329

Watson, Dr. John, 4, 24, 44, 52, 71, 78, 81, 120, 136, 144, 150, 154, 166, 176, 203, 205, 243, 248, 261, 274, 295, 296, 297, 299

Westcott, Bishop, 9, 65, 66, 129, 138, 166, 169, 177, 214, 232, 249, 262, 263, 264, 283, 328, 342, 350, 352, 353, 354

Whichcote, 198

Whittier, John Greenleaf, 6, 46, 179, 251, 272

Wickstead, Philip H., 160

Wiggin, Kate D., 67, 68, 347

Wilberforce, Bishop, 293

Wilson, 88

Wisdom, Book of, 190

Wordsworth, 303

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Transcriber's note:

Variations in spelling have been preserved except in obvious cases of typographical error and inconsistency. These have been corrected without comment.