Turkey -- Social life and customs

An Englishwoman in a Turkish harem

It is a landscape of unending and beautiful sadness which surrounds the Konak where I am now living. In my home away yonder I had imagined that where the sun shines there must be laughter and merriment, yet here, face to face with reality, the sun, the bright blue sky, and cle...

Chapters

1. CHAPTER I BACK TO THE HAREM

It is a landscape of unending and beautiful sadness which surrounds the Konak where I am now living. In my home away yonder I had imagined that where the sun shines there must b...

2. CHAPTER II “TIME’S FOLDED WINGS

But to return to the burden of letter-writing. Another Turkish friend, a lady who has stayed in England, considers one of the most disagreeable features of our civilization is o...

3. CHAPTER III BACKGROUND AND ATMOSPHERE

The Turkish home in which I am staying at present has little in common with the harem described by most Western writers, and no doubt those readers accustomed to the _usual_ not...

4. CHAPTER IV THE IMPERIAL HAREM--A RECEPTION BY THE SULTAN

It has been the privilege of many foreigners visiting Constantinople to witness the ceremony of _baise-main_, which takes place at the Dolma Bagtché Palace, but it does not fall...

5. CHAPTER V THE ANGEL OF DEATH

The Baïram festivities have ended sorrowfully for us. This house, which a few days ago echoed with mirth and laughter, is now silent--as silent as a grave. The whole Konak is as...

6. CHAPTER VI CHAMPIONS OF WOMEN--THE MEN WHO LEAD

I have been to one of the Turkish feminist meetings, which take place every Friday afternoon upon which it is possible to find speakers. This society is not organized according...

7. CHAPTER VII PASSIONATE WOMEN PATRIOTS--A MASS MEETING

This is the anniversary of the foundation of the Ottoman Empire--a red-letter day for Turkish feminists. To-day for the first time the various women’s societies have held a mass...

8. CHAPTER VIII A TURKISH MOTHER

I have been this afternoon with Fâtima buying “birth” presents. In a Moslem house it is difficult to find a more appropriate name for these presents, which correspond to our chr...

9. CHAPTER IX WOMEN WRITERS OF TURKEY

There are not many, it is true, but there are Turkish writers and Turkish women writers. For so long, however, it has been the habit to condemn wholesale everything Turkish that...

10. CHAPTER X THE PROPHET AND POLYGAMY

No book on Turkey would be complete without a chapter on polygamy--in justice to the Turk such a chapter is necessary. It is the chapter to which every reader will turn first of...

11. CHAPTER XI THE MAN WITH TWO WIVES

I had given up hope of seeing a Turkish house where there was more than one wife. I was sorry, and Fâtima was sorry that she was unable to satisfy my curiosity. The opportunity...

12. CHAPTER XII FARTHER AFIELD--THE PRIMITIVE PEOPLE

Alas! I have stayed too long in the charming society of Fâtima. In my quiet Eastern existence I have not noticed the flight of time. I came for a week, and I have stayed over tw...

13. CHAPTER XIII THE PULSE OF THE NATION

A European official, who has lived here all his life (and he is an old man now), is astonished at my recklessness in trusting myself as I have done to the protection of the “uns...

14. CHAPTER XIV FORBIDDEN GROUND--THE HOLY TOMB

I have been with Fâtima to the Holy Tomb of Eyoub. Ever since I came here I have looked forward to this experience; not so much, let me confess at once, to see the beautiful por...

15. CHAPTER XV ON THE SHORES OF THE UPPER BOSPHORUS

But what a curious feeling of loneliness and desolation one has on first entering this house. What has happened to the poor place? Has it been successfully burgled? Have its inh...

16. CHAPTER XVI MORE ABOUT HAREM LIFE ON THE BOSPHORUS

The house itself is built as most Turkish houses are built, with two separate entrances--the Haremlik and the Selamlik--and a central entrance hall, arranged as a lounge, from w...

17. CHAPTER XVII INCONSISTENCIES ON THE SHORES OF THE BOSPHORUS

I have been to stay with Zeyneb at her little Yali on the shores of the Bosphorus. I had not seen her since she so resolutely and for ever closed the book of her European experi...

18. CHAPTER XVIII ONLOOKERS ONLY

And now the time has come for me to return to my native land, I ask myself what have been my final impressions of my life as a Turkish woman. All these weeks, which have slipped...